What is a value, really?
A value is a principle you want to live by — a description of how you want to behave and who you want to be. It’s not something you complete and tick off; it’s a direction you keep choosing.
That’s the key difference between a value and a goal. A goal is a finish line you reach — “run a half-marathon in May.” A value is the compass heading behind it — health, or discipline. You can finish the race; you never “finish” being healthy. Goals are how you express your values in the real world.
Get the value right and the goals almost choose themselves — because you finally know what you’re aiming at.
Why your values belong in your day planner.
Most planning fails for the same reason: the list keeps growing, but nothing tells you what actually matters. So you do the urgent, skip the important, and end the day busy but hollow.
Values fix that. When you know your core few, they become a filter for priorities — a fast answer to “is this worth my time?” Tasks that serve a value rise to the top; the rest can wait or go. You’re not just clearing a list — you’re living a day that looks like the person you want to be.
A list of personal values to choose from.
There’s no “correct” list — values are personal. Use these as a starting point: read through, notice which ones make you sit up, and don’t worry about narrowing yet.
Character & integrity
Relationships & connection
Growth & learning
Health & wellbeing
Work & achievement
Freedom & adventure
Contribution & meaning
Security & stability
How to find your core five.
Aim for about five — fewer values you actually use will shape your life far more than fifteen you forget. Work through these four prompts, jot down the words that surface, then group and narrow.
- Notice your best moments. Think of a time you felt genuinely proud or fully alive. What were you doing — and which value was present?
- Notice what frustrates you. Strong irritation usually means a value of yours was crossed. Flip the frustration over to find the value underneath.
- Look at who you admire. The trait you most respect in someone else is very often a value you hold yourself.
- Group, then narrow. Cluster similar words (Honesty / Authenticity / Integrity may be one idea), then choose the five that feel non-negotiable.
From values to a plan — by voice.
VoiceFirstPlanner is built around this idea. In Life Planning you set your core values and your life roles — Parent, Professional, Friend, Learner — with a short “who I want to be” line for each. From then on, your day connects back to them.
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The Values Clarification Worksheet.
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